The Strongest Action For Anybody Is To Be Able To Love Themselves...

Good evening everyone, 

So I sat here thinking to myself that I haven't wrote a lifestyle blog in a while or a life related blog. 

Well now here we all are looking at this blog and I couldn't wait to share this blog with you as this is a blog I have been recently thinking about sharing with you all as it's important to me to be able to tell you all that your beautiful and you should remember that!! 

A few days ago, I discovered this quote on my Instagram and it really stood out to me, I hope it does the same for you!! 

In day to day life, everyone including both genders males and females we are all so self concious. 

I throw my hands up and admit that I am always worried: about what clothes look right on me, if my hair looks the way it looked the day before, if I look big in what I am wearing, if I feel big in certain clothes, if my make-up is okay... I swear it's an endless list!! But we all do it don't we?

The message, I want to put out there is that we shouldn't worry so much because we all look beautiful no matter what and it's about what's inside that counts even though most people today base things on looks.!! It's important to remember that your beautiful no matter what!! 

I thought I would take the time to show and share something with you all as it will show you guys what I am like when I am out of my comfort zone. 

Tonight, I shared a selfie with you all on my instagram with my hair up in a messy bun. 

I wanted to address the message that your beautiful no matter what and that you shouldn't be afraid to love yourself. I must admit, I dislike wearing my hair up, I think I look bigger and I always think I don't look nice but that's my personal opinion and we're all very self concious in certain ways, right? 

I thought it would be ideal to share it with you as it's a little act of mine to express to you all that I am trying to learn to love myself in ways I never thought I would. It's important to be able to love yourself, before you can let someone else love you! 

One of my favourite motto's is that you should treat people the way you wanted to be treated, so in other words you must learn to love yourself before allowing to let somebody else love you. 

Don't be afraid to love yourself, it's not a bad thing to feel comfortable in your own skin in fact it's a beautiful thing!! 

I hope his helps you all, I hope you all learn to love yourselves :) 

Lots of love, Anya x 

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Making Big Decisions And Taking Steps Forward

Hey again everyone, 

So I thought it was about time for another lifestyle blog so here we go! 

So life is busy changing from day to day. There are many pathways for people to take which are fulfilled with many different choices to make. 

Recently it has been A Level and GCSE results for students and it's pretty crazy to think that a piece of paper with results on can determine what you do. 

As the results either start your journey or change your journey. 

In most cases now, people are furthering their education through college or taking the big move to university. 

What's important to remember is life is full of changes. But you need to remember that your family, friends and yourself remain the same. 

As life changes, you only grow as a person. 

Making a change and making a decision isn't always an easy thing to do but then again is life made to be easy? 

Don't be afraid of change! 

Lots of love, 

Anya x  

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Relationships / Realism ...

Evening everyone,

I know I promised you guys an insight into my life as often as I could, so here is another blog for you guys.

I know most people reading this are my friends or family but for the other people reading my blog who hardly know me I think it's perfect to post these sort of blogs so you get a better understanding of who I am and how I feel about experiences or situations in my life.

I haven't really had the best experience with relationships, yeah typical girl right? Though I know boys don't always have the best experiences too and like I have always said it takes two people to make things work.

This is just a general blog of how I feel to be honest as like I have said before I often find myself thinking about things and then knowing it's the perfect opportunity to blog about how I am feeling... Sometimes, even my family and friends don't know what I am thinking or feeling as I am quite a personal person.

 I would prefer to help others rather than thinking or discussing how I am feeling but what I have discovered recently is to focus on what makes yourself happy as that will make the others surrounding you happier.

Anyway, one of my favourite songs of all time is 'Grenade' by Bruno Mars I really think it describes how my past relationships have been and I suppose at the time when your in a relationship you can't see how other people view your relationship. As I have said before, make sure you balance your views and don't push other people away just for your partner as occasionally the other people around you were right all along!

It is really hard to think when your in a relationship that your partner wouldn't do the same things that you do for them and that's literally the key point you all need to focus on... If he or she doesn't do the same things for you, is he or she worth it? Does he or she make the effort for you or do you have to do it all?

I remember at the end of one of my relationships, I am sure most of my family and friends are fully aware who I am talking about, I often found myself questioning whether I deserved to be treated like that?

I would definitely suggest thinking and questioning yourself as it certainly helped me and it made me wake up and realize that the relationship never worked, yes we had our good times but it was mainly bad times.

Moving on and finding someone who makes you happy and stands by you is definitely the best feeling anyone could ever have. Surround yourself with the people who support you and make you feel happy all the time!

Lots of love guys, if you ever need any guidance or if you would like to leave me some questions I will love to answer them for you guys.

Anya x

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